Use your words

People are not using their words. They are using everything but their words. Their truth and their desires are not understood by the universe or anyone else. I watch and see what comes out next, and if they are not just saying their words, they sputter, they defend, they blame, they make excuses, they yell, they curse, they blubber. You are accountable, period. If you know that, then just speak your truth. If you are still on the fence about your choices, or behaviors or history, be still and look very closely at how you became who you are and ask yourself, is this what I really am and want. Then, use your words. Try the mirror first before you try them on another human.  Be very specific, be clear, be honest and the positive. You are going to get what you speak and if you speak anything that you are not willing to have or own or do, if you speak it you will have to go through it anyway. The tongue is the rudder of the ship of the human, it is in scripture over and over, and you have been educated now. No excuses, no blaming your past or your job or your health or your pocketbook, YOU SPOKE YOU into reality with all it's detail and color. If you like what you got, score one for the team, if you wish you would have said and received something different, now is your chance to clear it up and start fresh, by using your words. Create your reality make it amazing, it is your choice.