The crush

Remember those intense feelings? The crush. If you think about the word it really does speak volumes. As we proceed into life from here forward, we need to let go of that behavior and let love grow naturally and simply. We need to teach our kids to stay away from that behavior.  Getting to know someone is a treat and gift to both people. It allows growth and allows pause and reflection. I have forever had crushes and had them on me. It is not a way of life I am interested in any longer. It creates a high energy flash in the pan sort of relationship that hurts in the end. The leap before you look attitude. Giving away that time to really love someone you want to know forever because the crush is allowed there like a steamroller. Connection is a gift and should be treated with respect as if it is fragile and precious. Love does not crush, not anyone or anything, ever. So think it through before you let your energy and your excitement run away with you, crushing you or me - not an option not now not ever again. Take the time to really get to know people, friends and partners deserve the care and consideration. Thanks for listening..