Why so HARD?

Hard hearts, hard heads, hard lives, hard, hard, hard. It blocks the flow. So today, for life and love, soften up, cuddle up, live it up. You deserve a soft look, a soft heart, a soft voice, and even a soft pillow for your head. It will need to come from you though. It will need warmth and light and truth, it will also need forgiveness and grace. Grace is a very soft way to live. Open and flowing and creating very beautiful relationships. Babies need soft to be peaceful, so do grown ups. We forget that sometimes, and as we harden through experience and layering, we simply forget how good it is to be soft. Soft is not weak, soft is gentle and very very strong. It is a choice of loving yourself and others. It is the best way to parent and partner. It is not giving up or giving in - it is going with the FLOW. Flowing is life producing, hard is the beginning of the end. Hard creates barriers. There is no reason to take a hard line, agree to disagree, admit the things that harden you and let someone in on the secrets you keep locked in that vault of hardness. Beatings harden children, if you are scarred from that, let the love of the Creator and all that is soft and good heal those memories. If someone spoke hard words to you, erase them with forgiveness. This is a soft time, focusing on the softness and flow, will open that part of you back up again. Please for all our sakes, soften the voices in your head with a vision of gentle love, warm embrace and a life worth waking up to. Smile, and receive the warmth that melts the frozen hardness that hides that soft place where love lives.