So, just do the very best you can and that is good enough

That is all one person can do. Instead of criticize ever, do the best you can in the moment and let that be the mark of your love and the direction of your success. Can you be more patient, or gentler? Can you be funnier, or more helpful? Can you pitch in instead of walk away and leave the mess to someone else? Can you find the one good thing in the pile of crap? Then can you focus on that and point it out to others? Ask yourself the value of peace and unity in your life. Then strive to add value to that value. Worthy of love, coffee, idea sharing, sex, meals, and recovery and rehab. We are there now, enjoy the revelation, you are God, a direct expression of Divine light and inspiration here,so act like it!!! And that will be good enough.