There are no accidents

I heard of a car wreck that opened the door for a local 16 year old boy to go home yesterday. It is being called an accident. Weather and conditions were too treacherous and the result tragic. I wish him Godspeed, he is safe and loved totally again with his stellar family. That is the good news. The lesson is that choice was made and it leaves others at a loss. Parents commonly put their own agendas, belief systems and personal preferences and issues in front of their understanding of the their own CHILDREN. You are being offered a chance at cleaning up your own issues by knowing, listening to and changing in the face of the relationship your kids offer you. PERIOD. They are here to help, to share, to love you unconditionally, and yet you still can't see the real them. Blinded by old scars and bad memories, unwilling to give in or give up old harmful habits and beliefs. So when they have given all they have to give, they leave. Unless we shift and become peaceful and loving and honest and create a better heaven here, there will always be the option to leave AND GO HOME. IF YOU WANT YOUR WORLD TO BE STABLE AND LOVING, YOU MUST BECOME WHAT YOU DESIRE, OTHERS WILL AVAIL THEMSELVES IF THAT IS WHAT IS AVAILABLE. I know we are learning hard lessons, but the University of EARTH, IS ABOUT LEARNING THOSE LESSONS AND LOVING THE CHANCE TO CHANGE. Look at your life, your surroundings, your habits, your talk, your looks, your job, your world is the world they are looking at. If it looks bleak or too difficult or sad or stressful or toxic or messy or mean or arrogant or fearful - change it. It is up to you, or of course you can go home too. Freewill for everyone, no accidents, that is the rule of earth.