MIRROR OF SELF

I teach many ways to see things, none so profound as your own children. They are you, period. When someone brings me a sick kid I will commonly say, it is your problem that needs adjustment not theirs. Do not expect the kid to be better until you are! It is a great way that nature and God show us in the most intimate and dynamic aspects of our life - US and only US. Those kids reflect us!!! If you are unhappy or unhealthy or anything less then you choose to be, fix yourself, look at your parents and forgive and forget and move forward. Kids become the failures you have yet to remedy in your own life. Your energy and the way you use it, is theirs by DNA connection. A direct hook up. Some even die so that their parents will see more clearly what needs to be done and clean up the hate, the loss, the pain. Down's kids are born where there is malice that needs to be healed. Other issues have other things they are here to shine a light on. Toxicity, is one of those things autism addresses. Poverty, is another. This is so important, to leave our world better, we need to do better with ourselves. Ask your kids what you can do better now. Be honest without any reaction, just listen to their fears and desires. See their reality quietly. Are they fat, or sad, or lost, are they angry or scared, are they broke or sick???? Or are they in love with their life, their work and their partners and friends and family, if that is true- KUDOS to you.