no blame, no excuses

but, but, but......stop now with that. It is what you have created, YOU create your reality. Success - YOURS. Health-YOURS. Commitment-YOURS. or the opposite, you decide. Looking for a reason for what you say or do or become, is MOOT. YOU become YOU. NOT ME - YOU. You can love me, emulate me, even admire me, but you will never be me, nor would or should you want to. YOU are perfectly YOU, and that is good enough and the only one to blame is YOU.