Love will keep you, everything else will fade

Only that which you have the energy to cherish with positive and happy thoughts, words and actions, will you be able to keep now. If you are not able to put the energy into this process , those things will find another home. People think they are stuck sometimes. Maybe a job or a relationship or a lot in life - stuck without the ability to shift or move themselves. You are the only one who can shift you. No one has the power or authority to move you into another place in any way. It does not matter what you are told, it only matters what you believe. Your beliefs and behaviors are your reality. Animals run away from places there is no love or light, so does money, so does friendship. If you do not put the energy in - expecting nothing in return, you will now lose it forever here. I am watching people change their lives with one negative word or deed, as those around them disappear now. Their homes, their health, their jobs - all POOF gone because there is not the love and kindness and respect that holds energy together.Honoring our differences creates allowance - I LOVE ALLOWANCE DON'T YOU??? Love is the magnet and the glue and you have all the power to use it for you and your life. Under the full moon today - stand in the extra light and absorb it, then radiate it out in all directions as nice words, helpful hands and a big white toothed smile!! You will change you forever in the light of a choice to embrace the LIGHT. Good luck. I expect to see a lot of happy people from here on forward!!!!! Namaste' Dr. Su

Blue Moon USE IT WELL!!!

Lunar cycles are used by this Earth to generate energy in the feminine. If you are healthy and balanced you will menstruate on the full moon. Birth occurs under the reflected light of the full moon too, it gives us the zip of added light reflected on us for 3 days. My African Guinea hens hatched last night and babies are surrounding the mom today. You can avail yourself by using these cycles to promote your own detoxification, as the body will unload more stuff under the full moon then any other time. We detox with a liver cleanse or a clay bath or a massage or a colonic or any other thing you know will move the junk out. Speak yourself into health, forgive and forget, say you are sorry, say you want a fresh start now. Sunshine in the day will clear you with Vitamin D3, so I hit the beach yesterday! Let go now, the August extra moon gives us a double whammy for clearing and releasing as we close in on the 12-12 and 12-21 dates of transition. Use this well, it is FREE and very POWERFUL. TODAY and Tomorrow will offer this push. Clear your crystals, give your animals a cleanser like silymarin and acidophilus to boost them for fall, do yourself first though. Thank you Creator for those things that come without our asking - you are a generous and loving friend!

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This blog is for the people interested in the people, and all of their health, wealth and happiness supported universally. Please feel free to share with your friends. I love you all, Dr. Su

Digging through the passed/past

You and I both will want to finish with our past/passed as quickly as possible now as we approach the 12-12-12 final ignition. This world has been dark a very long time and now with the lights popping on all of that yucky old crap should be clear from the closets and corners of your life. Enough is enough, suffering and seperation done and gone forever now. No more them and us - it is US AND US. The global brotherhood and community of caring will initiate contact and you will be safe and feel peaceful for the first time here in AEONS! You are loved - guarded and guided. You may have forgotten this but the time has come for you to remember, clean it up and blow out the cylinders and let's get this party started! Now is the time.

Pulling the house down

YOU are your own reality. Everything in your space reflects YOU. Your kids do, your pets do, your house does, so does your car. So why are so many people pulling the house down around them???? I have never seen so much need to change and such willingness to do it as I have seen lately. People willing to shift their entire reality by creating crisis and drama and massive loss. HEY! You do not need to make it so hard or so painful. If you know you need to change, get an empty notebook and start drawing up some plans, put down some notes. What you can perceive you can receive if you believe. Seriously. Some are still looking on the outside for what is simply shifting on the inside. Look around you and let it go with a smile and a wave and a see you later. It is our time now, no more them only US. So starting today, note and receive the new you - any way you like it! DREAM BIG, that's what I did and still continue to do and it pays in spades in every way!! SMILE we are watching you.

WHEN SAD BECOMES GLAD

I attended a memorial for my friends father and the joy in the faces of those who remembered when the memories were shared was inspiring. It is always a loss to our senses on so many levels when a family member moves on to the next level of consciousness. Not about what was, but more about what could have been. Was there more to say to this person, or other things to accomplish? Was this person a part of the daily routine and now that would all change or was this person someone in your life once in a while who occasionally appeared and would be missed? We commonly take for granted those closest to us. Some where in our mind thinking they will always be there and that you will get to them in a minute. Those questions that still need answering or those thoughts you still needed to share. Or maybe just saying that you are important to me in my life and I love you being in my family. Or maybe I forgive you now I am not mad any more. So today in memory of those gone now make an effort with those still here. If you love someone and they haven't heard from you in a while speak those sweet words of community and friendship - MAKE THE CALL! Send the card, drop by or simply in your quiet time - meditate them into your mind and give them a big hug and smile at them. They will feel it no matter where they are - if they are in your heart they are alive and present!

Sage, tobacco and cannabis - just to name a few

The Earth mother has given us so many things that offer so many benefits that have become misunderstood in the process of commercialization. To profit from a cigarette they had to make it addictive by adding chemicals that could break the blood brain barrier and cause cravings that ultimately drove people to the edge of health. Now there are the prisons full of potheads who from a subconscious place needed their weed and again because of the money stream they had to do that secretly and at great risk including jail time. Sage just became an absent thing when it's presence could clear a room, purify a body and change the whole energy of toxic residue. So who benefited from this, hospitals, churches and jails. HUMMMMMMM. Something to consider. I know from my history and my work that nature provides everything we need and she does not charge or create drama about it, it is simply available to those who seek it. IT IS TIME TO RECONSIDER ALL OF THESE THINGS AND TAKE BACK WHAT IS OURS TO USE. When I was at Machu Pichu, the locals gave of Coca Tea to help us acclimate to the 12,000 ft of elevation, it worked great. Noone got sick from the altitude. I wanted to bring some home and was told it was illegal in my country. Again I say we need to look at who controls Mother Earth, and let her do the driving from now on. This is her body and she shares with her children all she has, noone has the right to take that away from her people. And watch because she will take back all that was taken and when she gets mad it is dramatic and NO HUMAN can stop here. I prefer to stay on her good side, how about you?

WATER AS A CROP

I had coffee yesterday with a fellow who said that to me - I want to talk about water as a crop and my eyes lit up. Every single disease epidemic was initiated by something happening to the water in the area first. When we have access to clean water we have access to health on every level, personal and geographical. We are the manifested energy of light in the flow of water attracting minerals in the physical form. We are water babies! That is the way it is and the sooner we get the hang of that and begin to understand the process and the manifestations that can happen the world will be healed. So in the spirit of recovery, let's focus on water!! Make sure YOU DO EVERYTHING POSSIBLE TO PROMOTE CLEAN WATER ON THIS PLANET! Start with your yard - no chemicals are needed for a healthy yard - just good nutrition for your lawn. Do not through stuff away that can pollute our water - recycle or find a different way of using stuff or use something different that gets used up, like real food without wrappers!! Today drink pure water 4 times and see how good you feel - hold the GLASS IN YOUR HAND AND SPEAK POSITIVE WORDS INTO IT FIRST. Choose carefully because the change the structure of the water very quickly - ask Dr. Emoto about that. Namaste' Dr. Su

Home again

All my friends are coming home again, just for the weekend, but still HOME AGAIN. How many of us have that home again feeling??? Most are so caught up in the frenzy of life that they have forgotten the home again feel. I loved the farm of my grandpa and grandma anderson, it felt like home again. Lots of space, and a garden and animals everywhere. That is a feeling I love to this day that is why I have recreated here. My friends growing up became that feeling to me, they were my garden, my safe space, my potential and my inspiration. We did lots of fun stuff together, out doors mostly, skiing, hang-gliding, water skiing, sailing and music!! I, of course, had the horses and once in a while they came and rode with me. The feeling of home is where we fit the best and are the most comfortable. I look forward to three days of pure comfort and the feeling of home again. Call your old friends, your long lost cousin, your college room mate and get that home again feeling too. It is such a joy and the memories and the warmth will heal your soul! Here's to HOME being in the heart of us, producing some of the best in us and all that surrounds us too! To light, love and lots and lots of laughter, Namaste' Dr.Su

Riding Bareback on the Horse of Life

We teach riding at the ranch, bareback riding. WHY? Because when you get balanced and practiced and learn to use a 1,200 lb force of life to put you where you want to be as quickly as you choose - YOU CAN DO ANYTHING. You can learn to ride with a saddle and learn so much easier after this is accomplished. I teach this because to me it a course on life here. We are so much more powerful than we know or give ourselves credit for. We become small and fearful easily, insecure with our own strength. We are taught to conform to the will of others as if that is where you will find your strength. That is the bully mentality. With or against is the tactic, do as I say or else, you will be sorry if you do not. The real strength comes in the self, do what you do naturally, being who you are without comparing and saying your truth fearlessly. That is the force - life force. The note in the choir that is YOUR note to sing, many will sing the same note when they could be harmonizing instead! The outside is the easy part, the kids wondered the other day if the horses knew they were different colors, could they see that? I said they knew but it was simply for the beauty part it had nothing to do with the power and the grace and they are a team of unique individuals, working together in harmony. I love the lessons of nature, learning more each day and getting stronger and stronger with my own balance. Let's ride!

Listen and you will hear now.

My friend asked me about meditation, I said it was very very important. Listening instead of talking is a bit of a lost art. Meditation restores that gift and ability. My other friend said I can not hear him, he says I keep saying," what did you say?". I think because it is too loud for my ears. I am an amazing practiced listener but will only hear the good stuff. If it is not nice and sweet and funny and productive I can no longer hear it. Like not watching the news, I do not want to see the bad stuff that creates the reality of some people. I see auras and know it can go either way, I prefer it to go well into the light. It does a lot of the time, I guess my ears are switching to that channel as well. I am ok with living in a world where it is good and improving!! How about you? Meditation quiets the breathing and the heartbeat and opens a focus from with in - if you can then open the crown chakra eye on top of your head you can feel and hear from above - cool huh???? This is when I say, "In sounds, I can hear, with words I can understand and in pictures I can see - show me now.". It works every time. Meditation will change your life forever, it will unleash you from the 3D and move you into the ethers! Namaste' see you in the air!!

CLOD

Like giant footsteps smashing things around them without knowing, clodding has become a way of life for many. Like throwing litter from your car window and not thinking about that polluting our space!! Saying in loud toxic voices your personal frustrations about the way they think things should go. Expecting everyone to get out of the way and making no apology for the collateral damage if we don't move. It has become the American way and I wish it would stop. For me I want to learn to tread more lightly, with greater concern for those around me and leave behind a footprint that is beautiful and an add in! This is my wish for all of us, to stop clodding about as if we were the only ones here. There are animals and plants and tiny little people everywhere, listening and learning from your very presence, be aware, be care-full and we will change the clodding into something amazing. It is up to us and only us to make the change in us we wish to see in others. So I guess I will simply start with me!!

Who is Leonard Peltier - he is you!

A long time in prison for the fight for freedom for the American Indian, that is his Sun Dance, the sacrifice of his life in it's own way. How about you, what have you sacrificed to be free in your life? I see so many people wrapped so tightly in beliefs and habits that chain them to their station in life, that they have to become super sick and nearly crazy from it just to create enough energy to shatter that illusion. It is not necessary any longer. You are powerful enough to break free without all the noise and disruption. The drama can now end. Learn to listen, and then listen to yourself quietly!! Noone knows more about you than YOU. I tell my clients that they know everything I am here simply to remind them of what they have forgotten. In your mind is the frontal lobe, very small. It is filled by ego, intellect and emotion, the human stuff. Belief systems taught by other limited believers. In the other 90% is colour and sound, the potential of all that is. It swirls around stimulating your IMAGE I NATION!! Yes you are your own sovereign nation, a product of your own creation - in everyway. Now as queen or king of your existence, set up a system of rule that works for you. Be your own master practicing masterfully!! Pick what you like, leave the rest for another. It is freedom we seek now, find it within so you may manifest without. It is your choice, as it was Leonard's long ago. Now watch as he gets his freedom too! It is time for us all to soar with the Eagles and restore our Eden here. See you in the ethers, I will be the Hawk! Dr. Su

when love dies

Whether it is a person, a pet, or a dream, it is so sad and so hard for us to let go and remember the good times. There are those who come into your life for a moment only, to remember those as some of the best moments ever is to carry that love in your heart forever. My friend Rocky's kitty died today. He was a best friend and an unending source of delight to Rocky. He is mourning and I mourn with him, yet to heal first we must finish that sadness. Soon we will laugh at the memories and the pictures and then he will come the full circle of life. You get what you give - love gets more love and lessons learned are finished and never need to be repeated by those who evolve into love. Allow the past to pass for the truth is we shall all meet again soon, and I know for sure at the RAINBOW BRIDGE, Greg the kitty will be waiting for Rocky his human!!!! I love you both!!

What happened to the DADs?? Where are they??

I spoke with the father of 2 autistic kids yesterday and he told me of an issue with paying medical bills not covered by the mom's insurance. The vibe I got was he felt like that was her responsibility, that was her kid! I have felt the sting of the no dad syndrome, my dad died when I was little, so I never knew what it was like to have someone in your corner no matter what. I raised my girls alone for the back half of their childhood and the father guy wasn't around either. Simply too mad to be a part of our family. I know couples break up but kids are forever. So to those parents who chose to stay seperate because they are mad or hurt or simply not interested, the hurt is on YOU. You are losing a field of true love when you abandon your kid. Get over the self pity of a break up, but never get over the accountability of procreating a child. It is the hardest job you will ever love!! And the payback for caring and sharing and being there is beyond your wildest dreams and the biggest JACKPOT you will ever win!!

Beauty and grace shall follow you

We get the beauty part. We know beauty when we see it and we know how to pursue it too. The grace part is new and commonly rare to humans. Graciousness is a behavior, a verb and a state of being. It goes with the flow. It enhances the flow with a gentle smile of indulgence. It has no temper, no sense of intolerance. It is the grandma you loved, the lady from up the street who always had cookies or it could be fellow with a twinkle in his eye when he sees the shenanigans of the children, no noise, no yelling or pointing out what is wrong, but a graceful, loving smile and nod that supports the adventure no matter what it is. I love grace, for it leads to allowance. I love allowance, don't you?? It is the gift and choice that open the flow to a love and spirit of community lost and now found again. Today be gracious, be graceful, be the GRACE that the Creator is and wants us to be. Namaste' Dr. Su

Allow the flow to flow

Vinyasa - means flow, it is yoga speak. I like it for life speak. Flow is so much easier and productive. I get clients whose hormones are not flowing properly and they are out of whack in a big way. Then someone gives them more hormones to slam into the log jam - uh oh, that does not promote flow, that promotes other stuff. Cancer can be started that way, so can other issues. So for a change here, let's try less not more. Clean the river first, fall is liver cleaning time, which becomes a way to clean your blood and your whole body. Apples and lemons help, so does grapefruit for fat break down. Get some organic apples and make a juice for yourself, use it AM and PM and allow the flow to start, we teach a flush at our clinic that cleans out alot of junk. You will be so happy to return to the flow of things. After the flush allow the 90 days it takes for the new terrain to develop, and be amazed at what you can do with your health and your body in such a simple way.

Yoga - mind - body mastery

The word yoga means relationship. It teaches you how to be in relationship with anything. No matter how comfortable or uncomfortable we can practice our yoga and come out successfully. This is about mastering the relationship between the body and the mind. Breath and flexibility are improved substantially as is the quieting and focusing of the mind. So Simple, So True, find a studio and change your life. I have practiced and taught since the 90's and it has saved my life, my mind and my body again and again. It should be taught in every grade, in every school, it should also be available in every senior center!! Prisoners benefit dramatically as well.

warming of the world around us - the right thing

global warming - it is about time. mother nature will take care of hers if we let her do her thing without toxic interference. it is the warmth of the humans waking in the light of the new day that is really warming it up. the smile of the awakened is as beautiful as that of a child just after they are roused early in the morning. a look of peace and wonder and the excitment for a new day, all wrapped into one little face, radiating warmth. yesterday my friends said my ranch provides a kind of warmth and acceptance that gives a wonderful feeling when they visit, now that is what i am talking about! do that with yourself, open your eyes and smile at the world and her children everywhere with the warmth that comes from knowing you are safe and loved and doing what ever it is you love to do!! be globally warming to your world now and feel they warmth of others who too are ready for the new day of peace and prosperity and community. Namaste' Dr. Su

How to stay well - SAY I AM WELL!

As you speak your reality into existence it is important not only to say what you want but to surround yourself with those who speak the good things into your world as well. Encourage each other with words of support. The changing of the mind and the words you utter becomes the changing of the body and all of it's experiences. I know that happy people never get sick or injured. We only get what we need to change our life here. If I like it all and believe it to be good and right and well, that is how it will be. I choose not to surround myself with doom and gloom and those who curse out loud or try to scare me, that just wrecks my world and yours. The fear and self pity that pervades the thoughts of many should not become your mantra nor should we give it even a moment of our time. Instead, say I am well, I am successful and I am love in every way with everything. The Creator does not make mistakes, so don't worry just look and see the silver lining or the pot of gold - it could be there right in front of you!!! DO NOT LET IT SLIP AWAY FROM YOU. Hopelessly hopeful and proving that to be the amazing way, and the amazing truth and the amazing life here and forever! Dr. Su. Let that be our prayer.

Indigo Children grow up - new children everywhere now

Many years ago I was introduced to the Indigo nature of my personality. As a kid I rebelled against a lot of stuff. I could not bear inequity or injustice. I could not bear the bully or the elite or the self pitying. I could not understand nor tolerate adults who were disharmonic - saying one thing and doing another. I have always seen auras and they were clear to me, spoken words were presented but actions were totally different. Then there was the food that made me feel sick and the religion that made me feel sicker. Drugs were a nightmare and made me super sick and school was a waste of time except for the social part and the art, music and phy ed. I spent many hours in the principal's office for behavior that came from boredom. Then the mercury from a filling sent me to hell for a whole year and I changed forever after that happened. So what is the point of this - all was chosen by me as challenges that would motivate me to keep looking, keep trying and keep my own counsel and learn to listen to my own heart. Then as a grown up I met 200 other Indigos who had survived and were working toward the 2012. What a relief to know I was not alone. There are many of you out there that were not at that gathering in 2002, but you know you are the rebels and the world changers, none the less. Well, we have made it and the new children are here in droves because of our work and our willing natures. They are remarkable, super psychic and incredibly sensitive. They are not ill, they are the new genetics for a planet on the upgrade. Some even have gold in their blood instead of iron. Pay attention now, we are shifting. Gateways to new thoughts, words and deeds are here. Go on through and we will be there waiting for you in peace and oneness! It is time now. Namaste'

the gift of the autistic

there is a young man who flew over the new york skyline for a few minutes and got back to earth to draw a mural of perfection from memory. check this autistic guy out on facebook. what is the issue here??? these new humans are on upgrade on genetics for a world gone dark. they are highly sensitive and the toxins blow them apart. when offered a non toxic lifestyle they display extraordinary gits, alphas so to speak. the dregs of humanity want the darkness and feelings of fear and seperation to remain here, but that time is concluding. clean our land, our water and air, take direct action now to make choices that will make a radical difference. no chemicals on your lawn or your body and then we'll see who these new souls really are and what they have come to do here!! live now like you want there to be a tomorrow filled with promise and hope and health for all of us. Namaste' Dr. Su

it is not WHAT you do - it is how you are and do what you do that makes the difference

i got my boots polished once at an airport and the gentleman who took care of my boots did it with such amazing charm and generosity that i had to tip him a hundred bucks for the experience. HIS BEINGNESS WAS INSPIRING. it is who you are and how you are that makes our world what it is, especially in the face of adversity. when the tough times come it is a test of the soul as to see who you really are and how you are going to be. being, being the only choice we have. there is no tomorrow, no second chances, no do overs, simply being and choosing in that being WHO AND HOW you only you, ARE! WE HAVE ENTERTAINED ANGELS UNAWARE, THEY SECRET SHOP YOU ALL THE TIME, CHECKING IN WITH YOUR BEING. they observe your conduct, they listen to your words, they assist when asked to help and they remain ardently your biggest fan. be now in the spotlight of your own life, a creation of being proud and strong and loving and ever improving! it is the chance of lifetimes!!!

stay strong and you will be fine

we are always in a hurry to be - be something different. i want to be fit, or healthy, or rich, or in love, or anything that i am not now. it saps us of our now power and the enjoyment of the present time. death stalks sometimes and appears unexpectedly leaving people in the coulda, woulda, shoulda place. do not wait any longer to live, you may need to focus and put effort into this but it will be totally worth it. this is the only day that counts! yoga brings us into the moment and allows and promotes the present, try it you'll like it, boys and girls alike. any practice will do, a morning walk, or daily bike ride, or a weekly horse ride, all reel you back in and bring you - you, in all your glory! drugs are not a cure for anything, they simply buy time so you can heal, in that there may be value. or you can simply play it out and let yourself heal in your own time, lots of choices and everything is fixable. if a baby can be created in 9 months imagine what 9 months of healthy eating, sleeping and focus will do for you. you are worthy of having it all, just begin Today!

There you are - where you have chosen to be.

In an effort to learn quickly, we choose difficult challenges that push us to the brink. I see it so often in health and money these days, people creating super lessons to promote a shift in their own thinking. While in the lesson of course they look in the outside first, they ask "why me" and "how did this occur, I don't deserve this". After a time though it begins to sink in that they set off the trigger that started it all. Sometimes it was done a while back and that part is forgotten until the student gets back to it and says "oh that is when I began to think that way". We are shaped in ways we are not conscious of. Like, I am not lovable, or I am not worthy, or I have no passion, these will start with a job or relationship that doesn't fit, then the rest begins. Attracting the lessons is the easy part - the law of attraction is real and working just fine, that is why we are currently in this heap of learning. Quickly now before the 12-12-12 and 12-21-12 when the world comes online again and a light shines that will show every single thing, no more secrets! I am counting the days!! Namaste'

From your past you are your present

The Akashic records record history in an etheric or energetic library of sorts. There are records of earth history, the oldest storage being here in the st croix river valley where I live. It is a generator of history waves. You are also your own record keeper, with stored memory not only in your brain but also in your body, the bones being the oldest of those receptacles. WHO WERE YOU?? WHAT CAN YOU RECALL OR RELATE TO?? You have familiar feelings some comfortable, some terrorizing, simply records of your experiences. Some memories return with places, some with dates, some with people. I got sick on New Year's Eve for many consecutive years until I remembered it was the day my dad died when I was two. The rage at the feeling helplessness and hopelessness would bubble up and I would vomit like I had the flu. I finally bumped my head real hard and remembered that day and time and forgave the whole mess and moved on from that. I was never ill again on that day. People are the same in meeting old friends from past times, some instantly fall back in love and other's begin the same battle they were in when they departed the last time they were together. It is interesting to see it and even more so to know it for sure in your own life. Find these memories and meditate on the fullness of what they mean. They give you a chance to DO BETTER THIS TIME. Try it, you'll like it.

HEAT TRANSFORMS - BURNS AWAY ILLUSION

This summer with the heat and the solar flares people have been experiencing lots of detoxification symptoms. Heat at night, weight gain, a feeling of swolleness, tired and heavy legs and ankles, break outs, short tempers, upset stomachs, that is just to name a few of those responses. One way to know you are detoxing is your eyesight shifting, the meridian into the top of the eye is liver, that is the headache place too. The lower part where bags and circles form is the kidney meridian. Using cherry and blueberry in juice and just eating them will really help alot. They are working overtime for sure this summer. The illusions we are burning through need the heat of the fire to clear them out, It is a big job for a fragile body, especially if you are full of junk, junk food, junk drink and just junky thoughts. If harmony is not your natural state now you need to clean up YOUR mess, it isn't someone else's although you may be irritated with others, it is your own stuff, and needs your attention now. Stay cool, stay hydrated, stay balanced and allow the shift, it is a wonderful thing and a real gift to those who follow through. Peace out!

Dental Office - the toxic dump - your thyroid at risk

I sat a friend's appointment yesterday in a Woodbury dental office and saw the woman in the next room with her hair falling out, working away. I thought I bet she doesn't even know what is happening to her. When you breathe the air in a dental office where mercury is used or removed without the proper equipment - it poisons your body and the swallowed vapor blocks the thyroid from absorbing it's vital mineral iodine. You NEED your thyroid if you want to digest your food, metabolize it, have a functioning liver, have healthy skin and hair, have access to your short term memory and feel happy as a natural state of being. This toxic air caused my heart to race as my adrenaline kicked in with it's fight or flight signal. That happens to kids in dental offices very commonly. They know they are in harm's way. I am very sensitive to this issue and very well educated on the same subject and use my work as the FIGHT mode for this response. I will not flee in the face of danger I will stand and fight for my right to live on a healthy planet with healthy choices. Dental offices are responsibile for 70% of the mercury we battle in our environment that contaminates our waters and our fish and our world. If your dentist still uses mercury in any capacity at all - FIRE THEM! Tell them why and then walk away. DAMS will show you to a new and healthy provider where you and your children will be safely cared for. DAMS.org has the list of those interested in the new field of Health-Centered dentistry - do not look back - it's YOUR HAIR! Keep it!!