I love other's downloads and look and listen a lot. Here's a wonderful message from a guide to us.
Temper and it's manifestation allows others to step in and manipulate the angry one and the situation.
Holding it back and keeping control allows the person to not be manipulated in any way, leaving them in tact in every way.
Wow, something to consider.
Temper and it's flares, exhaust me, for sure, when I indulge myself. Which is why I choose not to allow this to happen much anymore.
Temper and it's tantrums and ravings and cursings now truly repels me. I choose to surrender and walk away. To some that is sweet relief to others it is heartbreaking since withdrawing love and participation leave the person alone in their suffering.
Some people believe they are suffering, so they are and they want you to know that and feel it too. NO THANKS!! If you indulge their feelings of self pity then when you do withdraw in exhaustion they use the temper thing to get your attention. Watch a kid, they are masters at it. They try to punish you with their energy and what we are being told is that they open themselves up to manipulation by everyone around and end up making it much much worse for themselves.
The cycle of negative entropy. Just going down the drain.
So let's let go and move toward the peaceful resolution in all situations. Those in pain, acting out, need your love not your reaction. Tell them you love them and that you will see them again later after the storm is over. Jesus saves, human's do not. It is the responsibility of the person to fix their own anger and deal with their own stress, not to make the problem yours. We show tough love and unconditional love by staying out of it, for your opinion is not what they really want your attention is what they are trying to get. Drunk, stupid, angry, sad, fearful, the list goes on and on, just wastes energy. Theirs for sure, yours if you stay involved. Let go, find light and laughter and love, even if you have to go outside or away to do it.
Sidebar, kids reflect their parents, so take responsibility and look in the mirror mom and dad. Their learning every detail every step of the way FROM YOU!!!
The challenge for the season is to find peace in all things starting with yourself.
Namaste' Dr. Su
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