De-pendence or IN dependence?

What did you bring to the party? Showing up now with nothing in your vision, your hand, your heart, your bag of tricks, is not going to get the job done. The refigerator rule is this. If you are responsible for the contents, and the electricity that runs the unit, you may help yourself. If not, you need to ask permission. Kids now days, still show up and think mom's frig and all it has is theirs for the taking. It is NOT. You can not be IN-dependent while being de-pendent. CAN humans have it both ways? NO! So this holiday reminds us of how much we paid for the independence of our country, and are we still free, Or do we rely on everyone other then oourselves, for a refrigerator full to keep us showing up? Decisions are now demanded or we will have to begin again. Starting over is an option, YOU CHOOSE which one you want.