Wednesday, January 4, 2017

Time to GROW up now

My clients are sometimes like my kids, looking for help and support as they grow. In the practice of wellness, there is a lot to learn as an adult, since so much is not taught to the kids when they are young. Someone else does all their work, hands out the pills, writes the note so we do not have to show up, and on it goes. Time now for kids of all ages to GROW UP, GROW a pair and take their future in to their own hands. Truth is, I have never met a kid, young in age, who wanted to be sick or fat or depressed or addicted to anything but a cool life. Teaching them they are able, and letting them express their abilities is key. You can not nor should you think someone else should take care of you, ever.....Cooperating is one thing, co-dependency another thing all together. Are you holding someone back by doing their work for them, paying their way, writing their notes of absence, making their excuses when they are inappropriate in some way???? Are you the one who bails, when the boat gets too full???? Time for grown up choices, made by grown up humans. Too much has been left to chance while we were babysitting, bailing out and wondering how this all happened. New Sheriff in town, new light for our path, new love for our selves, will set us up for some new grown up behaviors!! Looks good for 2017. I know being a grown up is fun! I do it every single day.

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