Who are the peers that are to be the ones you match? The ones who peer at you? Do they care? dO THEY KNOW you??? You are the one who peers, first from within and then with - out. Children are born to peer. They come to join a herd/heard. First the parents, the family, the neighborhood. Then the game players show up. Hide and seek, tag you're IT, Kick the can. Kids are the gold of the world we live in. Posing to them, is offering peer development. Is it you or someone else in the peer group developing their heard/herd? I posed to my girls - music, sports, nature and honesty, along with a hearty breakfast each day. I put them on the bus with a smile and a wave, and told them to ask Arch Angel Michael to be close. THEN I showed up where they were to see the other peers they were with. Being that available was the important part of my parenting. I chose other mothers as peers and that helped alot. When I saw another human not promoting healthy peer development for my girls - I SAID SO. Sometimes I even said NO/KNOW. Your jury. At the end, the judgement will come from within. Look in the mirror and decide now and every day along the way - who is the jury you choose? Who are your peers? And what are you and them choosing to do? It is not religion nor politics, it is life and love and laughter that make our lives full and beneficial. Focus on what makes you do the things you do. I do horses! And kids too!!
See ya in the barn.
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